According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, it is totally normal to have sexual fantasies and it is also totally normal to not actually want to act on them. For instance, you might dream about being dominated a la 50 Shades of Grey but half of the women who fantasize about being dominated don’t actually want to do it, according to Business Insider. At the same time, that shouldn’t stop anyone from sharing their most common sexual fantasies or indulging in buying high-quality sex toys either.
Taboos are disappearing and we’re much more open to letting our freak flags fly than ever before. Here are 10 of the most common sexual fantasies women have — and you should totally be sharing with your partner. After all, even if they’re not into it as much as you are, it will start a convo that is sure to make your sex life better. Enjoy!
1. Having sex in a romantic place.
It turns out that 84.9% of us fantasize about having sex in a romantic location. What does that mean, exactly? Well, that can mean something different depending on who you are and what your idea of romantic is… Maybe that’s rose petals and champagne in a fancy hotel room, maybe it’s taking a sexy bath together before your partner leads you back to the bed you share, or maybe it’s something else entirely. Whatever that is, what you REALLY want is a deep connection.