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Why Every Queer Latina Needs to Watch ‘One Day at a Time’
As a kid, I remember watching My So-Called Life and absolutely loving the Ricky character, a gay Latino kid who struggled with acceptance and even homelessness. It was a big deal back then, but we’ve definitely come a long way....
8 Sex Moves You DON’T Have To Do For a Healthy Relationship
Society puts a hell of a lot of pressure on perfecting our bedroom behavior. Magazines tell us to try “10 Amazing Sex Positions Right now,” lingerie takes over our televisions every December to showcase models wearing twenty-pound angel wings. With...
Why You Need To Leave Your “Almost Relationship”
You’ve probably heard by now of “the almost relationship.” But if you haven’t, it’s either A) the time before you get into a relationship, that’s full of exciting prospects that this person might be your next partner or B) a...
Jada Pinkett Smith Banned Son Jaden From Sleepovers To Protect Him From Violation
If you grew up in a strict Latino household, chances are you weren’t allowed to sleep over anyone’s house and that included even relatives. It was something I never really understood until I got older, which is why Jada Pinkett...
8 Beginner Sex Toys Perfect For The Single Gal
Having a healthy sex life in your relationship is important, but it’s also important to enjoy s-e-x with yourself. If you’ve never gone sex toy shopping before— you should. Though, it can be a little intimidating to get started. The first...
How To Have a Better ‘O’ This Year
If you grew up in a Latino household, then there’s a big chance that you never, ever discussed sex at home. From mami and papi ignoring the “birds and the bees” talk to simply pretending like sex isn’t a completely...
How Can You Tell If You’re Kinky In Bed?
When the 50 Shades of Grey series made it big on the book lists and later on the movie screens, BDSM (bondage, dominance and submission, masochism) was everywhere. Those that had never even heard of it had started to experiment with being...
10 Totally Sexy Fantasies It’s Ok To Share With Your Sweetie
According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, it is totally normal to have sexual fantasies and it is also totally normal to not actually want to act on them. For instance, you might dream about being...
5 Latinas Talking About Their First Time
First time sex can be awkward. Painful. Awful. Underwhelming. It can also be pleasurable, loving, and truly special. But most of all, first time sex is something that we all remember — for better or for worse. As a Latina, one...
Gina Rodriguez Just Directed One of ‘Jane the Virgin’s Most Sex Positive Episodes
What happens when Jane the Virgin FINALLY puts its star Gina Rodriguez behind the camera? An absolutely amazing, mind-blowing, and otherwise incredibly sex positive episode for everyone involved. That’s right, the show’s 33-year-old Puerto Rican star became one of the...
8 Ways to Win Over the Heart of Any Latina
As a Latina, the last thing you want is to date someone that’s only interested in you because you’re Latina. Like, OK, yes, we are amazing, but fetishizing people for their ethnicity is extremely problematic. No Latina wants to hear...