As if we haven’t celebrated enough holidays already, here comes Valentine’s Day. At least with this holiday, we can stuff our faces with chocolates instead of tamales. Although Valentine’s Day may be a reminder of how single some of us are, it doesn’t mean we have to hate on it. Rather than trying to buy someone’s love with a heart-shaped box of chocolates, use Valentine’s Day as an excuse to pamper yourself. So, in the interest of self-care, here are some ways to help you get through the day. And remember, being single on Valentine’s Day isn’t embarrassing— sending drunken text messages to your ex is.